Well to begin i would actually like to thank all the concerned people who made me come and sit in front of this bugging screen and tap my fingers on this typewriter alike keyboard forcing me to think for all what i never thought i will...... all the credit goes to them and to the mental agony and torture given by them!!! well to be true its actually really beneficial for me for the reason i m today back to MY own life... i m back to what i was earlier!!! and i m really happy for myself..... thanx to everybody responsible for it......
Now coming to the point where my mind is running faster than my hands on this keyboard i would firstly like to tell all the very people reading this blog that why am i naming this entry as my advent into a newer life.... just for a simple reason that from today onwards i have decided to live a life which makes me feel really really happy and free... the most Easiest way according to me to find happiness is just be with "who cares attitude..." and trust me u'll start living ur life that day!!! the next question hopping into my mind is that how to achieve this... and i can guarantee you that if a super emotional and highly sentimental girl like me could achieve it then it is very much possible for u!!!!!
well it just takes a few instances to realize that u and ur life is going in a wrong direction and we really need to work upon it in order to get the real meaning of happiness......
1. wen u start over thinking about one issue.
2. wen something done by someone starts hurting u badly.
3. for no good reasons u start feeling upset, worried and insecure.
4. u have sudden mood swings.....
not really these are the only symptoms of life taking a wrong direction and u being unhappy but for me they were the very responsible ones!!!!!
now what did i do.......
1. stopped thinking about everybody except for myself...(may be i m selfish now)... but whats wrong even if i m and that makes me happy???
2. i started with my who cares attitude!!!
3. have actually learned that if its u then there is world and its not the other way round!!!
4. i only do things what i feel are right and what i enjoy doing... i don do things anymore asked by people for them!!!!!
well its just the beginning.... may be i m wrong in my approach of finding true happiness but then at last it is again a thing as who cares.... i m happy this way so let me be....!!!!!
Sunday, May 6, 2007
My advent into a newer life...
Tattled By Sonal.. at 11:19 AM
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hey nice thoughts u wrote, good 2 see that u hve an intellectual mind and hve done a bit of introspection abt life, n how 2 live it...nice job...
Hey really a nice work .....gosh wed did ya became writer ........lolzz jokes apart wat u wrote is correct appreciate your thoughts ....but not fully agree with you coz the " WHO CARE " attitude according to you gives Happiness which is not real nd is superficial .......if we start thinking nd keep on goin with this Attitude ...may be aftr a long tym we will end with only ourself ...tht is Lost alone ....nd btw Happiness comes from sharing ......ma view ....wat u told is also correct to an extent but its just till graduation whr u r surrounded by gossips nd bla bla ....... nd not in a practical lyf .....secondly "WHO CARE " attitude is an absolute adjustment nd we ourselves know that wat we are doin is jst for our sake ....wch makes us selfish nd self centred pushing us more towards lonliness .......nd lastly the most imp thng ........HAPPINESS ND SORROW is part nd parcel of lyf .....U r here for a purpose .....u will perform that .....hw much u try to aviod ....u will still b doin tht ..... but still i appreciate wat u have written ......but this type of happiness dsnt last long ....srry jst ma opinion .......Happiness always come from making others Happy nd by seein thm Happy .........
nice work done .......
byee tk !!
continued, srry coz of net probs .....
Nd Happiness nvr comes jst by sitting nd deciding in one day .....it shows that either u have come up frm some thng whch was at the back of ya mind ....or a break - up resolved .......
and the actual Hapiness wuld be judged aftr u strt livn your second part -- Married lyf ...so thnk of tht tym with this concept ....btw wen one starts writing tht means he/she isnt happy coz ...writings / letters are always baked by remembrance or sorrow ..coz happy ppl nvr have tym for all this ....
newys still gud work ....
@abhinav....
well thanx for ur enlightened words dear.... but the fact lies that the who cares attitude is just for urself... and it really does work and waise bhi to live life in its present is the motive..... we must live in our present and then plan for future!!
oh sonal u have caught the right nerve..i totally agree with u that this is the best way to remain happy..give a damn to all those who dnt care for u..y should only v to realise,to understand,to feel empathy..my motto of life is i am the best fuck the rest!!!!
well nice blog !!!!
keep blogging
Descent idea of being happy..bt sum things r easily said dn dun..WHO CARES ATTITUDE..i dont know it can b a risky affair..chances r skewed towards other aspect also..so if any1 has d risk appetite..can give it a try..
nice thought..
njoy..
yaar mere pale ek shabd nahi pada.......plz iska hindi anuvad karke msg karna...till then bye bye tata tata....
OMG!!!
This is a stellar article...
Well, I don't think that you intended it to be a philosophical article, it definitely is insightful.
Well, I could relate my sources of unhappiness to the points mentioned, and I could also at the same time, work on solutions for them based on already "proven" strategies by sonal :-)
Great Blog, Terrific Writer, and a Good Person above all :-)
arrey yaar itna mat socha kar..life gives u wat give it..dnt make an effort for staying happy...n u'll be happy...n u knw wat..after reading this..its feels u've went thru smthing bad...is that so???
arrey chill yaar...n stay happy n cheerful like always...u luk gud like this.....c ya
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